The Future You - You are in Charge of Your Destiny! | DFS 257

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Welcome to the destined for success podcast.

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I'm your host, Jennifer Takagi and this podcast used to be

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called new manager media manage right from the start. Many of

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the concepts are the same, that there's a little shift. There's

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a shift because I know we are all destined for success. And I

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want to help you find the fastest, smoothest way to reach

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your highest best as quickly as possible. Join me in today's

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episode, where you're going to come up with new ways to build

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your skills, and influence others to make the impact you

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desire to make. I look forward to connecting with you soon.

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Welcome to destined for success. I'm your host, Jennifer Takagi.

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And if you didn't catch last week episode with Jim Cathcart,

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you need to back up and listen to that one first, because he is

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an amazing man. And I'm so honored that I had the

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opportunity to interview him for this podcast. One of the things

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he talked about in that episode was having a vision. So I titled

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this episode, the future you you are in charge of your destiny.

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So my question is my first question. Who are you right now?

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In your own mind, who are you? How do you show up? Now, a lot

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of times, I think I show up way better than I am. And other

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times I minimize, like whatever fun greatness I bring to the

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party. But it's been a few minutes and really contemplate

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who are you? And is that who you want to show up and be? I'm

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going to be honest and transparent here because like I

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usually am, it's really hard for me to make stuff up, although I

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love doing that too. But I've had a real struggle making this

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shift from being a very strategic leadership coach,

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helping with customer service, creativity, problem solving,

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change management, behavioral profiles, so you can interact

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with others, to this piece of intuitive business coach and

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soul Care Coach. And I've been working on that a lot because I

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bring so much more to the table when I use my intuition, and I

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use my gifts and talents to help other people build up their

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gifts and talents and show up how they should. So it really

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hit me the other day that I needed to just own this. I mean,

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I own who I am, how I'm showing up, and the magic I bring to the

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world. Last week, in the same day, I received two text

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messages from two of my dearest friends. And each of them had a

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crisis going on. And they said, Will you do your magic on me?

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Because this is going on and I need your help right now. That

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is one of the most heartwarming amazing things that can happen

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to me. I want the validation I want validation from my friends,

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especially my family for sure. And then of course the clients

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of the people that I have never met other than as I work with

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them and on them. But that means a lot to me. So who am I now in

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my mind, I'm having to redraw the picture and color it in that

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I truly am an intuitive business coach and a soul Care Coach. I

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don't know how to merge those two terms together and come up

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with some super killer expert title if you have ideas you know

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message me let me know because I would love to hear it. But who

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are you right now? And then the next piece of this is who you

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are right now how you see yourself? What three things

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would you like to be different? What three things would you like

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to be different? As a woman, a lot of people that I'm around

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it's a body image. I want to lose weight. I want to be

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stronger. I want more muscle tone. I want to be more toned. I

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want to lose 100 pounds. I want an eyelid I want a facelift, I

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want some Botox, I want this face to look better in person

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and on camera. That's perfect. That's great, whatever makes you

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feel good to show up and show up as your true authentic self. I

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had a call with a client today. And we were in her Akashic

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records. And she's making a shift into a new world working

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with some new people. And the interesting thing is, she looks

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beautiful on camera hair makeup, she always looks great. And

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occasionally, when I have a call with her because we are friends,

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she's a little more casual. And the message I got was you need

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to be camera ready every day. So no matter who calls, you can hop

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on that Zoom, call that FaceTime that Facebook Messenger video

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call, whatever it is, how you like to show up? I'm not saying

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you have to do hair and makeup. If you don't like hair and

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makeup, you do not. But I feel better with hair and makeup. I

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mean, I have hair right? I'm just talking about washing it

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and fixing it a little bit. So how is it you want to show up?

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So what would I change? What are my three things that I would

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want to change? Well, for over a year and a half, I've been

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working out with a trainer, lifting weights, but only one

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day a week. If I were to add another day, that could make a

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huge difference in my physical strength and abilities. So one

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thing that I would like to be different is my strength. That's

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kind of a big deal to me my strength. So we'll just stick

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with that one for me. For the three. I'll just pick one of the

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three just for time sake. So now how are you going to make that

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transition? What are you going to do to transition from what

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you are now to what you want to be? And one of the things Jim

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Cathcart shared was I am a professional. Let me get his

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exact quote, oh gosh, where to go? I love paper and I have lots

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of it. I'm big, I'm big. This is his thing. I'm becoming a

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professional at like at what what are you going to become a

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professional at? I am going to become a professional. I am

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becoming an expert. I am becoming well versed. I am

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becoming well known. What is it for you? So when we think about

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my business and doing energy healing work, and transforming

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people and transforming their lives. I am becoming an expert.

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Catalyst for healing. Yeah, we're gonna do a mic drop there.

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I'm Jennifer Takagi and I look forward to connecting with you

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soon. Thank you for taking your time to spend with me on this

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