Episode 258

How to get your kids out of school with Kristina and Herb Heagh | DFS 258

Get all the inside secrets and tools you need to help you develop your intuitive and leadership skills so you are on the path to the highest level of success with ease. Kristina and Herbert have been together for an incredible 32 years. From the moment they met in college, their love was undeniable. Kristina followed her passion into teaching while Herbert followed his into business and entrepreneurship. Drawing from their knowledge and expertise in diverse fields, they have combined their life experience to create Vibrant Family Education and the Bringing Education Home podcast.

In this episode you will learn:

  • Story of how a dream comes to fruition
  • Bootcamp to guide you from thinking about it to doing it
  • Dig deep to get to your WHY!

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Transcript
Jennifer Takagi:

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make. I look forward to connecting with you soon.

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Welcome to destined for success. I'm your host Jennifer Takagi

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and is PATA Palooza, de, I was so excited to get to interact

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with and meet new people from different areas that I may not

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have connected with otherwise. And in this episode, we get to

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meet Christina, and herb, and we're going to talk about how to

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get your children out of school. My mother just wanted to get me

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to school, so I can't wait to hear more. Welcome Christina and

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herb.

Kristina:

Thank you so very much. That was a lovely

Kristina:

introduction. And we are so glad you asked us to be on your show.

Kristina:

Thank you so much. This is awesome. We are glad to be here.

Herb:

Yeah, thank you for inviting us. It's a pleasure to

Herb:

be here.

Jennifer Takagi:

Awesome. So why don't you tell me a little bit

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about yourself and how you got to this point of how to get your

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kids out of school that come about,

Kristina:

I would love to Well, I am a teacher and I was a

Kristina:

teacher for 27 years 25 of those years I was in the classroom,

Kristina:

where we are now telling you to get your kids out of that

Kristina:

classroom right? After the 25 years, I was two years

Kristina:

developing the K through two online program for our school

Kristina:

district. So I was actually an online teacher for two years, it

Kristina:

happened to coincide with COVID. But it wasn't because of COVID

Kristina:

that I did that program. This was the school for our medically

Kristina:

challenged our behavior kids or those kids who are in like

Kristina:

sports, you need a super flexible schedule to bounce all

Kristina:

over the country. After I did that, and after everything that

Kristina:

happened in 2020, I found a silver lining. I was like you

Kristina:

know what I can take this model, reach out to parents who want a

Kristina:

different kind of education for their child, support them along

Kristina:

the way and help make education better for a lot of our

Kristina:

families. That's where I stepped away from them school district.

Kristina:

And

Herb:

that's her in the box. story. Yeah, and my out of the

Herb:

box story is I'm a different kind of guy. I'm kind of weird.

Herb:

And I after college, I went to work in a cubicle farm. But I

Herb:

also got into entrepreneurship. I started building businesses, I

Herb:

saw kind of what was coming through our world what's

Herb:

happening right now a long time ago. And so I wanted to set up

Herb:

my business to be able to capitalize on what's about to

Herb:

happen, what's happening now, but also to build a school

Herb:

system because the kids were being left out. Our our elderly

Herb:

people are being left out and our military veterans are being

Herb:

left out. So I had this vision that came to me one morning, I

Herb:

woke up in my driveway sounds really weird. And I had this

Herb:

vision of the school system, where it's like, old people do

Herb:

better when they're with young people, veterans do better when

Herb:

they're under care. So you can bring them all together and do a

Herb:

school system. And in the process of that while I was

Herb:

building that, I had an accident and I hurt my head, have

Herb:

traumatic traumatic brain injury, I actually have quite a

Herb:

lot of brain damage. And it took a lot of my entrepreneur

Herb:

abilities away. And in the process of recovering, we

Herb:

actually came across and through what was happening now we God

Herb:

gave me back the school in a moment. He's like he because I

Herb:

felt he'd taken away and I got really angry with God. But then

Herb:

I was in somehow in a business meeting I wasn't supposed to be

Herb:

at. And I was told tell them about your school. I was like

Herb:

you took it away from me. And it's like I did, it's not yours

Herb:

anymore. It's going to belong to your parents now. So through in

Herb:

that meeting in that moment it came it went from being my

Herb:

school and this brick and mortar thing that I was doing to this

Herb:

education model where the parents get to raise their

Herb:

children the parents are in charge of the the things that

Herb:

they teach passing on their family heritage and their

Herb:

traditions. And so we came up with it. So with her

Kristina:

vibrant Family Education where we help parents

Kristina:

take control of their child's education and really make what's

Kristina:

better for them and their families.

Herb:

She built, she built a PAP this school in the art, I should

Herb:

say that. But that's the experience to run the school.

Herb:

And I got connected to other forces that gave me the vision

Herb:

and help lay the foundation so that she could just really take

Herb:

it and run with it.

Jennifer Takagi:

I love that. And Herb, I want to say this

Jennifer Takagi:

whole idea of your vision, I recently have been told in

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various conversations, how we have that inter intuition, that

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vision that idea comes. And if we don't run with it, it'll move

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to somebody else. And I love the fact it didn't really move to

Jennifer Takagi:

somebody else. But it morphed into something even bigger and

Jennifer Takagi:

better than what the original vision was. But you may not have

Jennifer Takagi:

been able to hear the message. Had you not had the first

Jennifer Takagi:

vision, right? Like, you wouldn't have been open to it.

Jennifer Takagi:

It would been like, oh, that's stupid. But since you already

Jennifer Takagi:

had the first was like, Oh, wait, even better. But wait,

Jennifer Takagi:

there's

Kristina:

more. There's more. Yeah, exactly.

Herb:

Kind of law of attraction is you start moving towards

Herb:

something, that thing starts moving towards you, as well. So

Herb:

yeah,

Jennifer Takagi:

and it all comes together the whole world

Jennifer Takagi:

of Whoo, how amazing,

Herb:

right? Like you the universe is happening to you, or

Herb:

it's happening for you. And once you get to that realization that

Herb:

it's happening for you, then then it really does start

Herb:

happening for you.

Jennifer Takagi:

Oh, my gosh, I so believe that. So with your

Jennifer Takagi:

vibrant family education, is that like a program is that a

Jennifer Takagi:

core a book or what? Tell me a little bit more about how that

Jennifer Takagi:

plays in and impacts families and lives. Vibrant

Kristina:

family education is a coaching program at the

Kristina:

beginning, but then the families can continue with us through the

Kristina:

school year, if they choose to. So currently, we have a four

Kristina:

week boot camp get started program, where parents who are

Kristina:

really looking at their education role models and their

Kristina:

ideas and deciding what they want to do for and with their

Kristina:

children. Maybe their child is being bullied, maybe they're

Kristina:

being left behind in the classroom, maybe the school that

Kristina:

they're at really isn't a good fit, and they want something

Kristina:

different. I walk the parents and the families through four

Kristina:

weeks of planning routines, learning styles, all the

Kristina:

different things that help them know for sure that it is going

Kristina:

to be a good fit to bring their child's education home. And then

Kristina:

after they decide, we get them all set up. And then as they

Kristina:

want to, if they want to branch off on their own at that point

Kristina:

and just run with it, that's cool. If they want to stay with

Kristina:

me, we have a hybrid online homeschool kind of model. So the

Kristina:

parents are doing what's considered homeschool in the

Kristina:

state, but they have me and the online curriculum as a teacher,

Kristina:

supporting them, teaching them helping them with the academics.

Kristina:

And then along with that is coaching for the rest of the

Kristina:

year. So the parents and the families are never alone.

Herb:

So the core we have in the online curriculum, we have the

Herb:

reading the writing the arithmetic, which are typically

Herb:

the things that scare the parents most to teach. So we can

Herb:

cover that. But there's also other modules that you can put

Herb:

into it. But with our coaching, it's like we coach about how to

Herb:

get your kids socially acclimated. So by taking them to

Herb:

music by taking them to sports by taking them to civic

Herb:

activities by taking them to museums, if you're an

Herb:

entrepreneur by taking them to your work with you or, or by

Herb:

taking them to your week long seminars and your other learning

Herb:

programs, so that your kids can see what you're doing. And so we

Herb:

we coached the family how to come back together and to use

Herb:

education as as a tool to build a family. So it's not just the

Herb:

school and we do your kids, it's like we can help with the

Herb:

schooling. But our main function is the coaching that brings all

Herb:

of it together.

Jennifer Takagi:

I love that. And the first time I ever heard

Jennifer Takagi:

of homeschooling, I will be dating myself. I think it was

Jennifer Takagi:

probably in 1996 97. And I met this woman and she was like,

Jennifer Takagi:

Yeah, my daughter wasn't doing well. And I met somebody who

Jennifer Takagi:

said I homeschool my children and she was like, Oh, I can't do

Jennifer Takagi:

that. And lo and behold I did. And at that point, her daughter

Jennifer Takagi:

was in college and doing great, like once she got out of high

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school. And it's become much more commonplace now. And I know

Jennifer Takagi:

of somebody else who pardon me. Brought her daughter home to

Jennifer Takagi:

homeschool. And she was an entrepreneur and had a business

Jennifer Takagi:

and I was trying to get ahold of her and I was like, Hey, can we

Jennifer Takagi:

talk about this because I'm thinking she's at home doing her

Jennifer Takagi:

entrepreneurial stuff, right? Like she should be, she should

Jennifer Takagi:

be completely accessible to me whenever I have a thought, no,

Jennifer Takagi:

no. She was like, Oh, I'm so sorry. We're at a volleyball

Jennifer Takagi:

tournament. And I was like, what? So like, there are whole

Jennifer Takagi:

sporting events, there are whole out all the other things around

Jennifer Takagi:

homeschooling where my vision and okay, there's probably one

Jennifer Takagi:

person listening to this, who believes it to my vision was mom

Jennifer Takagi:

sitting at home with you at the kitchen table, beating your head

Jennifer Takagi:

against the wall for you know, eight hours a day, because we

Jennifer Takagi:

were gonna make school like a workday, right? So I love that.

Jennifer Takagi:

It's like, I've evolved. And I know more than I did, then. But

Jennifer Takagi:

it's interesting that you're bringing the education and the

Jennifer Takagi:

family all together.

Herb:

The biggest regret we hear from people who are

Herb:

homeschooling is that they didn't do it sooner. You know,

Herb:

there might be problems, there might, you know, there might be

Herb:

stresses, especially if you don't have any help if you're

Herb:

trying to figure it out all on your own. But even if you do

Herb:

figure it out all in a row. And once you get it figured out,

Herb:

it's like it's life changing. And and thing that people say is

Herb:

like, I wish I'd done it sooner. I

Jennifer Takagi:

wish I'd done it sooner. So how like, what is

Jennifer Takagi:

the first step? In this process? It sounds kind of magical to me,

Jennifer Takagi:

but what's your first step? What do people need to have an idea

Jennifer Takagi:

about? Or do? Well, one of the

Kristina:

very first things you have to think about is your why?

Kristina:

And you hear that from so many different coaches? What is your

Kristina:

why why do you want to bring your children home? Like I said,

Kristina:

Is it because of that behavior issue? Is it because they're

Kristina:

having learning difficulties? Is it because you know, they're

Kristina:

being bullied at school,

Herb:

because all the BS, political propaganda that's

Herb:

being pushed down people's throats?

Kristina:

No pants on what your, your your issue is? Right there.

Kristina:

Anyway, but you know, once you really latch on to that and

Kristina:

know, then the next part is to really think about what will it

Kristina:

take? And what does it look like? And that involves

Kristina:

scheduling routines, knowing how flexible or inflexible knowing

Kristina:

what kind of curriculum and programs are out there. And that

Kristina:

has a lot to take in, which is one of the reasons why vibrant

Kristina:

and family exists is to help walk parents through that

Kristina:

because, you know, we've talked to parents is like, well, I

Kristina:

can't do that, because I can't figure it all out. Well, what if

Kristina:

someone was there to support you and hold your hand and help you

Kristina:

through it? Right? Would you then maybe make that step for

Kristina:

your children to make it the best that it can be for you and

Kristina:

your family? You

Herb:

know, one of the one of the biggest concerns or things

Herb:

that keeps parents from actually talking to us? Is them thinking,

Herb:

Well, I wasn't good in school, I'm not smart. I can't do it. So

Herb:

here, here's the thought, if you weren't good in school, and you

Herb:

don't think you're smart, then you know for sure that the

Herb:

school system let you down. Okay, and your children are a

Herb:

product of you. They don't fall far from the tree they talk kind

Herb:

of like you do they are kind of like you do not not completely

Herb:

you but you know, that's that's how they learn by focusing and

Herb:

watching. And so if you didn't do well in school, why do you

Herb:

think your children will now if you're, if you're just they

Herb:

might they have the possibility, but if you're assisting, you

Herb:

know, if you have a teacher that's helping you in school or

Herb:

helping you school, then you're more in control, you get to

Herb:

start directing the learning, and being there for your child.

Herb:

And so if they start getting left behind, you're actually

Herb:

more involved with the coaching with the life. And so you want

Herb:

your children won't be left behind, like you might have

Herb:

been,

Jennifer Takagi:

like it might have happened, like you hear all

Jennifer Takagi:

the time of people graduating, and they can't read it, you

Jennifer Takagi:

know, first or second grade level. I don't really know how

Jennifer Takagi:

that happens, because that was not the school and I had.

Kristina:

Fortunately, being a teacher, I know how that happens

Kristina:

now, and the newest statistic that just came out is that 65%

Kristina:

of our fourth graders, so they're 910 Oh, ish year old,

Kristina:

right? Cannot read at a proficient reading level. So we

Kristina:

have 65% of those kids who can't read, if you they can't read,

Kristina:

they can't access they're learning. They can't learn learn

Kristina:

more because they can't get the information from the books and

Kristina:

things right. So yeah, it's an epidemic and some ways and the

Kristina:

reason why is unfortunately our system is broken. There are

Kristina:

teachers who are absolutely awesome teacher I am not bashing

Kristina:

bashing teachers at all. I was a teacher, right and I love my

Kristina:

teaching friends. But we're in a system now and not all schools

Kristina:

are the same, right? Not every school is horrible. You know,

Kristina:

that kind of stuff. But think about and look at your school

Kristina:

where you are. And we are required to be on page two of

Kristina:

chapter three. In Week 10, of the school system, and that just

Kristina:

keeps moving on, our children aren't required to learn to

Kristina:

mastery before they move on. So then they have a hole. And

Kristina:

that's how come a lot of our kids are where they are, right?

Kristina:

They're not quite getting where they need to be. So if

Herb:

they missed that week of reading, if they miss that

Herb:

foundational part of math, then it just keeps getting farther

Herb:

and farther behind, it keeps getting harder and harder. And

Herb:

these kids aren't taught how to catch up, they're giving the

Herb:

resources to get caught up. So once they fall too far behind,

Herb:

then they're just left behind, and they're pushed through the

Herb:

system through the school. And that's how we get eighth

Herb:

graders, fourth graders who can't read at a kindergarten

Herb:

level, because they fell behind so early that they were just

Herb:

pushed through and never given the opportunity. And that's what

Herb:

we're trying to correct. Our school is so individualized. And

Herb:

because the parents are involved in so much, and it's like,

Herb:

they're there, they understand, they get to watch. And they also

Herb:

get to learn. So if they miss the reading, as they're teaching

Herb:

their children, they get to pick up these little things that they

Herb:

might have missed and help start improving their life as well.

Herb:

Not necessarily intentionally, but again, as a little

Herb:

byproduct.

Jennifer Takagi:

Well, I was very fortunate because I was in

Jennifer Takagi:

good schools. And I caught on and I did the things. But I can

Jennifer Takagi:

completely relate to my senior year of high school. And I don't

Jennifer Takagi:

really know how this happened. I just signed up for the next

Jennifer Takagi:

class, the next class. And next class, I didn't even know there

Jennifer Takagi:

were like, Oh, you only have to have one math credit or two,

Jennifer Takagi:

whatever. So I'm a senior, and I'm in trig algebra three. Math

Jennifer Takagi:

was never my forte ever. As a matter of fact, I got a college

Jennifer Takagi:

degree with honors without a math class, because I made that

Jennifer Takagi:

happen. Right? That I, it was so hard that that was so hard for

Jennifer Takagi:

me. I would go in every morning, and I stayed every afternoon to

Jennifer Takagi:

get help from the teacher because it was just so over my

Jennifer Takagi:

head. And we'd have a test. And I always passed the test, but I

Jennifer Takagi:

never made an A. And I'm confident the reason was, I

Jennifer Takagi:

barely got hold of it and took the test. And we moved to the

Jennifer Takagi:

next thing. So like from that aspect, I can totally see how

Jennifer Takagi:

that would happen. And the good thing was like, I literally

Jennifer Takagi:

never took another math class, like once I got out of that.

Jennifer Takagi:

Iran,

Kristina:

you were fortunate because you took enough higher

Kristina:

math in high school that the college didn't require you

Kristina:

basically test it out, or your transcript tested you out of

Kristina:

your math courses.

Jennifer Takagi:

Oh, no, I have a degree in French and Spanish

Jennifer Takagi:

with a minor in English. Math was not a requirement. I have

Jennifer Takagi:

those languages down. It was the math part. That was hard. But I

Jennifer Takagi:

figured if you go all the way through trig algebra, three,

Jennifer Takagi:

unless you're going into a profession that uses math all

Jennifer Takagi:

the time, you don't really need any more than like that. That's

Jennifer Takagi:

like an overachiever. Totally. Exactly. Well, I love this. So

Jennifer Takagi:

how can people get ahold of you? Like, how can they learn more?

Jennifer Takagi:

And find out? Oh, my God, my sister does walked in and scared

Jennifer Takagi:

me to death. Oh, my gosh, come say hello, these are these are

Jennifer Takagi:

educators dropped down, they can't see you. There you go.

Jennifer Takagi:

Here's my principal. We're finishing up. That's gonna be so

Jennifer Takagi:

fun on the podcast, right? How is it that people will get ahold

Jennifer Takagi:

of you? And be able to learn more and find out about and now

Jennifer Takagi:

I just lost my train of thought at the vibrant family education.

Kristina:

Awesome. Thank you for asking. Yes, you can find us at

Kristina:

www dot vibrant family education.com. And that is our

Kristina:

website. And there at the bottom of that you can click on a

Kristina:

parent teacher conference. And I promise when you come to this

Kristina:

parent teacher conference that it will not be the mean teacher

Kristina:

sitting there telling you that your child is being bratty or

Kristina:

missing out on all the school it will be this kind teacher who

Kristina:

says I want to help you give me some idea of your education was

Kristina:

What's it What are you kind of struggling with? And how can I

Kristina:

help you? Yeah, we

Herb:

can help figure out where your children are at and where

Herb:

they need to go and how they get caught up. And, and we can help

Herb:

you with all aspects of that. And the

Kristina:

other thing is follow me on Facebook. Christina. Hey,

Kristina:

right. I am a real person. I will answer the DMS and all of

Kristina:

my links are in my bio there as well.

Jennifer Takagi:

And you have a podcast bringing education home.

Jennifer Takagi:

Yes, we do. on all the platforms,

Kristina:

yes. On all of the platforms.

Herb:

It's all about education. And we talk to lots of experts

Herb:

to help build in a wide variety so so communication experts with

Herb:

teenagers with tweens Um, clutter experts, scheduling

Herb:

experts, psychology experts. So whatever, whatever we think

Herb:

might help our nutrition, whatever helps our families

Herb:

bring the family together, strengthen the family, what's

Herb:

best for the children, we bring all of those in. Because as they

Herb:

get a love of learning, I'm just getting that right. Right better

Herb:

I usually say learning of love, a love of learning, then then

Herb:

these aspects of health and self development are always like

Herb:

choice high value, things that even kids like to learn how can

Herb:

I be a better person? So, so then enter into it. And

Herb:

sometimes they don't even necessarily need to go to

Herb:

college because they've grown so much, that they're doing what

Herb:

they love, before they need to even make those kinds of

Herb:

decisions. So they're living their life. They're becoming

Herb:

their person, just through the process of edge of education of

Herb:

learning to love education.

Jennifer Takagi:

Oh, my gosh, I love it. It has been a pleasure

Jennifer Takagi:

getting to know you. And I look forward to connecting with you

Jennifer Takagi:

soon.

Kristina:

Thank you so much for having us.

Herb:

It's been a pleasure. It's been a lot of fun. So thank you

Herb:

so very much.

Jennifer Takagi:

Thank you. I'm Jennifer Takagi and I look

Jennifer Takagi:

forward to connect you with you soon. Thank you for taking your

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time to spend with me on this latest podcast and destined for

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I am Jennifer Takagi, an Executive Leadership + Communication Coach who teaches leaders how to play well at work so they can drive better performance from people they lead, increase profitability and create a purposeful workplace where people want to come and play—productively.