Unleash Your Potential with Weekly Clearing Sessions | DFS 251

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Welcome to the destined for success podcast.

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I'm your host, Jennifer Takagi and this podcast used to be

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called new manager media manage right from the start. Many of

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the concepts are the same, that there's a little shift. There's

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a shift because I know we are all destined for success. And I

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want to help you find the fastest, smoothest way to reach

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your highest best as quickly as possible. Join me in today's

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episode, where you're going to come up with new ways to build

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your skills, and influence others to make the impact you

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desire to make. I look forward to connecting with you soon.

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Welcome to destined for success. I'm your host, Jennifer Takagi,

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and today is episode 251. Can you even believe it? I mean, it

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seems like just yesterday, I started this podcast. And here

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we are episode 251. And there have been over 20,000 unique

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downloads. I don't know exactly what that means. But let me just

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say I'm excitable about it. It sounds fabulous. Over 20,000

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unique downloads. Today, I want to talk about unleashing your

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potential. With weekly clearing sessions. I have a really deep

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seated question for you. And that is what is holding you

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back. What is holding you back from reaching your highest level

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of success. I've really struggled with how I can help

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people how I can help them the most how I can show up most

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authentically and have it be affordable. There's this,

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there's this whole mindset out there, you hire someone, and you

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just really get going good in it and they say oh, if you don't

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stay with me, the prices are going up. That just kind of

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thing bothers me. And it bothers me when things are so

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financially out of reach for most people who I would want to

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help and work with that they can't do it. And it's like, oh,

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I don't think that's my purpose. I don't think that's why I'm

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here. And I was very fortunate to be at a podcast content

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creation camp in November of 2022. And I hung out with

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Kimberly Crowe, most of the time, there were other people

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there. But she and I had some pretty great discussions about

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my business, how I could help people what I could do. And the

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benefit of hanging out with somebody who's done stuff that

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you haven't done is that taking give you ideas that you would

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have never thought of. And I love it Steve Jobs, one of the

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things he used to say was, you know, creativity is connecting

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the dots nobody else saw or you had it recognized already. So

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Kimberly said, start a membership, how to be $49 a

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month, I meet once a week, and clear those trapped emotions

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that are holding people back. And I was like, Oh, I can't do

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that. I can't do that in a group. I know I will. Let's talk

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about some pushback people. And then it hit me. I can reach more

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people, I can help more people. If I have a very affordable

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group program, then I can try to leverage my time because there

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are so many hours in a day. Leveraging my time to help more

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people. So I was like, Okay, I'm gonna do this. Well, I started

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building it out in December, did a little soft launch in January.

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Then February. That was it. I started charging. Several people

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are in the group getting great results. And I love it. I love

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it. $49 a month. What is that? Like? I don't know, to large

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Starbucks a week. It's pretty minimal for amazing results. So

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what is standing in your way? What is seeing you in your way?

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What is holding you back? What is holding you back from your

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highest level of success? Sometimes it's that lack

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mindset, that lack of abundance, that I can never do that. I

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can't afford that and then Yeah, throw judgment on it. I love to

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fly first class and if I decide I don't really want think it's

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worth first class for that flight. I'll go down to the next

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level. And somebody said, Oh my gosh, how do you do that? And I

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was like, Well, I get on the plane, either first or early. I

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typically have my luggage for free, depending on the airlines

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that can be 5060 75 bucks each way. No, I've never learned to

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travel with only a carry on. And I don't intend to start now. And

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I get taken care of, and I like it. So what is it that you would

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just like to do? Be because you would enjoy it. Not everything

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has to be about a hard thing, or I don't deserve it. God put us

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here to live our highest and best life and bring glory to

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Him. So what is standing in your way of reaching your highest

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level of success? Do you want the next promotion? Do you want

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to bring in more clients? I don't know if you're an

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entrepreneur, a corporate business person, a federal

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employee, which I used to be corporate and federal, and now

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I'm an entrepreneur. What is it that you want to achieve? And do

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you have this feeling? This little nagging feeling that

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there's something holding you back? I often hear people say, I

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don't want to talk about my past. You know, why do we have

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to go back to childhood? That stupid? I don't want to do it.

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And I don't want to relive it. No, I, I survived the past and

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I'm moving forward. And then you see some of their behaviors. And

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you'll wonder, did you really move past that? Or is it hanging

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on for dear life, impacting the choices that you make? I've done

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a lot of work on myself. So let me just tell you, it can be

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work. It can be hard, but it doesn't have to be. It doesn't

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have to be what is standing in your way. Were you that kid that

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got up to do show and tell and everybody laughed at you. And

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now you say, Oh, I can't be a public speaker. Everybody will

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laugh at me. It may not be a conscious thought. But it's

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there. It's there. And it's impacting all the choices and

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decisions that you make. What if we can identify a trapped

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emotion holding you back and clear it quickly, easily and

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without having to relive the trauma? How does that sound? I

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often ask how do you clear that out? Well, it's with intention.

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You set the intention, I set the intention and jointly, we clear

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it out. I like using a deep breath. Let's take a deep breath

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in. And when we exhale, we're going to clear that out. And I

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love to use the idea of a cloud, like whatever that emotion is,

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maybe it's despair. And it's like, okay, just envision either

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despair written on top of a cloud or the word within the

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cloud, like the cloud is forming the word. Take a deep breath in

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and exhale. And when you exhale, that cloud does dissipate. And

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when that cloud dissipates, so just the despair, it goes with

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you or away from you. It's just gone. Some people feel an

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immediate sense of relief. Some people feel more peace, like

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instantly. Other people, it can take a few days, and that's

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fine. Whatever it takes to clear it out. Other people have asked

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me, What do I have to do? This same event in there was actually

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important wire to Mexico. One of the people who was one of the

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leaders and coordinators of the event was allergic to cats. And

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there had been cats in the apartment that he was staying

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in. And the poor guy had the brightest blue eyes, and they

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were blood shot and puffy, and he was miserable. Because he's

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allergic to cats. He was eating breakfast and I, I went up and

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sat down across from me and I said, Hey, and he goes, Hey,

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Jennifer, what do you need? And I said, I don't need anything. I

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just want to take care of these cat allergies. And he said his

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spoon down and he was so gentle and calm. And he says, right,

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what do you need me to do? And I said, Oh, I just need you to sit

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there and look cute and eat your breakfast. And he goes, Wait,

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what? I don't have to like do anything and I was like, No, you

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do not have to do anything. You can just sit there and look

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cute. Let me take care of this.

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30 minutes later, his eyes were as clear as the bill. I went up

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to his sister and I said, Hey, have you run into your brother

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lately? And she was like, no, why? And I said, Well, I just

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want you to be surprised when you see him. That was in

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November of 2022. I spoke to him into June 1 of July of 2023. He

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has been around cats multiple times, and he has not been

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allergic at all. He has no response whatsoever. So when the

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question is, do I have to do anything? No, you don't. If you

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believe that you can be helped, that you can be cured, that you

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can be healed that you can be better than you were five

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minutes ago. That's helpful. But are you still gonna get some

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sort of relief? Typically? Yes. Typically, yes. I had someone

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tell me what, I don't really know that I need to work with

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you. Because I haven't really had trauma with a capital T.

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I've had some trauma with a lowercase t, but not big trauma.

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The little traumas impact you also. And sometimes a whole

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bunch of little disappointments can turn you into a person who

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don't want to be clear them out. Let's identify them and let them

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go quickly and easily. Quickly and easily. That's like the big

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deal. Do you need to relive the trauma? No, you do not. I had a

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call with a client, we identified an age that this

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particular emotion occurred. And I said, Do you know what

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happened? And she said, No. And I said, Great. Don't worry about

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it. Don't think about it again. Let's just clear this out. And

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we did. Another client said, Yes, I know what happened. That

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was like conversation. She knew what it was. She didn't want to

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talk about it. She didn't want to mention it. And that's fine.

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You don't have to, you can share with me not share with me.

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Whatever you choose to do. But often I find clients don't

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remember what happened. Or like I'll say, Oh, well, something

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happened at 10. And are like 10. That was so long ago. I don't

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remember what happened at 10. You don't have to remember. And

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you don't have to spend any time or energy trying to remember,

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like you don't have to you absolutely don't have to. I have

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other people who are like I don't want to work in a group

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setting. I don't care that it's only $49 a month. I don't want

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to be in a group. I want one on one. Perfect. If you prefer one

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on one, you just let me know. You let me know. And we can book

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an appointment. It's just that simple. So in the shownotes I

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have a link to sign up today for unleash your potential claiming

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sessions. It's $49 a month. If you sign up for the first month.

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I will waive the second month give you a chance to get in.

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Just remind me when you show up. I just signed up Jennifer and I

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got this off your podcast and I will refund you for the second

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month. I am Jennifer Takagi and I look forward to connecting

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with you soon. But get in the show notes. You're on your

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phone. You've got it. Click the show notes go to sign up today.

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I cannot wait for you to join us. Thank you for taking your

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time to spend with me on this latest podcast and destined for

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