Confidence Codes Releasing The Fear Of Being Seen | DFS 373

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Have you ever felt that tug, that inner

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knowing that you're meant for more, but something just keeps

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holding you back from stepping fully into the spotlight. I'm

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Jennifer Takagi, your host for destined for success, and today

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I want to continue the conversation about branding and

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having the confidence to step into your brand. Maybe you've

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built the brand, the website, the offers, but deep down, you

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still hesitate to be seen. Today, I want to talk about that

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invisible block, the fear of being seen, and how releasing it

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can unlock a whole new level of confidence, success and

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alignment. I want to share two client stories today that show

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exactly how that transformation happened, how clearing old

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beliefs and emotions around visibility literally shifted

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everything in their lives and their businesses. The first one

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I want to share about is a gal named Lisa. Lisa and I connected

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at a live event at Brenda Burchard Ultra mastermind event,

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and we just clicked. Like, we just it was like, Oh, wow. You

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know, this is this is cool. We have so much in common, like how

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we want to show up. And I did a free session of releasing

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trapped emotions, and I do this from time to time. And if you've

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never attended, you're missing out. You need to attend. And in

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this session, Lisa shared how she really wanted to start a

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different business. She had a job, a big O, J, O, B, she has a

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job, but she wants to get into more of the psychic mediumship

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that she's really called to do.

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And that's a big thing. And depending on your upbringing,

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your belief systems how you've always shown up in the world.

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Making a big shift like this can be very scary. It can be very

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daunting.

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Now, Lisa had purchased the platform she was going to put

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her website on. She had played around with it. Let's just use

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the word dabble. She had dabbled in a little bit, but she just

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couldn't pull the trigger. Does that sound like you? You know

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what you want to do. You feel the calling, but you just can't

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pull the trigger. Well, that was totally Lisa. She could not pull

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the trigger. And when we were on this group session, she said, I

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go around the room. I try to address everybody that's there,

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if at all possible, depending on how many people show up. And I

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asked the question, do you have any trapped emotions around

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stepping into this new chapter and connecting with your

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intuition is very simple. It's very easy. You just have to be

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open to the possibilities. And there were, there were trapped

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emotions around this idea of stepping into this new business.

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So we identified and cleared the trapped emotions as they came

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up. And to clear a trapped emotion, you literally set your

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intention to clear it. And how I do this is I literally say,

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envision that emotion and everything that goes with it in

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a cloud. And we're going to take a deep breath in, and when you

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exhale, the cloud will dissipate. So we did this

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several times, and cleared all the emotions around it and and

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she's an intuitive person, and in the healing type world, and

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she was like, Oh yeah, that was great. And probably 10 days, two

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weeks later, she reached out and said, I just want you to know I

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did it. It's imperfect, but I took imperfect action. I asked

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for help, which, oh, does that sound like you? Is it hard to

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ask for help? I have that problem sometimes. She said, I

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asked for help.

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I launched my website, I put it out there, and I'm going to have

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my first live event. And I was like, Oh my gosh, that's

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amazing. She said, Yeah, I couldn't have done it if I

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hadn't worked with you, if we hadn't identified what that

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invisible block was, what that wall was that was keeping me

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back from doing what I really wanted to do. I saw her a month

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or two later, and she said I scheduled my first live event.

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I'm doing a live in person setting where I share my psychic

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mediumship gifts and talents. Yes, and I already have it full

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like I already have the people

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lined up to come as an entrepreneur that is like manna

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from heaven, people coming in, people showing up. I was so

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happy for her. We identified what was holding her back, and

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she was able to move forward. She had been doing the work she

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had been moving forward, but just couldn't take that last

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step to pass the finish line. And she did, and she did so

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super happy for her identify. What's holding you back from

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showing up confidently and boldly as yourself can make all

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the difference in the world. Another client of mine, we had

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met online in a in a group, but we really hadn't interacted, and

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she had reached out to me like in a group message. Said, has

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anybody written a book? I want to hear about your experience.

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And I said, Yes. And we got on a quick call, and I shared my

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experience of being a published author on Amazon, and that was

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great. Nice little chit chat. And then we saw each other in

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person, but since our previous call had been on the phone, not

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on Zoom. I didn't recognize her, and there were hundreds of women

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at this event, so like all the names run together at some

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point. And she said, Jennifer, we met. And I said, Oh my gosh,

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we did. Now I'm embarrassed. How did we meet? And she reminded me

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of the phone call, which had been a number of months before.

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So we reconnect, have a nice little chit chat. And we decided

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to have a coffee chat to dive a little deeper into what each

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other does and how we might be able to support each other. So

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in this conversation, she said, Oh, I don't know anything about

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Akashic records. I'm like, can you explain that more. And I

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said, Well, I can explain it a little bit, but it's probably

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easier if we just do it. And she was like, yes, let's do it. So

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the easiest way I can explain and how I look at interpret

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Akashic records are that they're the messages on your soul and

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you, you hear people say, like, oh, I had this little nudge,

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this little tap on the shoulder, on some of the hallmark movies.

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They call them God winks, like God's winking at you to move

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forward and do something. Other people think it's their higher

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self, their intuition. Oh, that's true. All of that is

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true. And with Akashic records, I just call it, the messages of

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your soul. And there are ideas and thoughts and goals and

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purposes that we have that are on our soul, on our hearts, and

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we keep getting opportunities, and opportunities keep showing

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up to lean into that, that that's where we're supposed to

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be. And so when I opened her, her name's Melanie. When I

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opened Melanie's Akashic records, I got this really clear

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vision of ancestors holding her back. And often I don't get

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picture images. I typically get words. And it was like your

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heredity, your ancestors have a very clear definition of a woman

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and what a woman should do and how she should show up in the

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world. And for you, that is being a wife first, and then a

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mother, and then, if you want to have a business, okay, it's a

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little hobby on the side. Does that sound like you? Does

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anybody relate? You can have a business, you can have a job,

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but it's never to take precedent over your family, your

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household. And balance is hard. I'm I do not want to minimize

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that balance is hard.

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But if you really have a block that I can go no further than

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this, because this business is to be a hobby, not a financially

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lucrative business that holds you back. So it was

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super cute. She was like, How do I work with you? How do I give

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you money? How do we book a call? What do we do? How do we

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clear all this? So we did all of those things. And after several

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sessions, she was like, yeah. Like, I'm feeling a shift. And

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we worked together for a while,

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and every time was like, Yeah, I feel a shift. I feel

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differently. I feel a little bit and the interesting thing is,

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with energy work, sometimes you actually feel the shift of the

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energy, and sometimes it's several days later and you

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realize you're in. Interacting with people a little

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differently. And several months passed, three or four months

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passed, and we hop on a call, and she says, You are never

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going to believe this. She's so excited. She's just about to

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jump out of the computer screen at me. And I was like, Oh my

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gosh, what's going on? What happened? And she said,

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I had the biggest month I've ever had. And I said, Oh my

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gosh, that's amazing. Like, you don't have to tell me dollar

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amounts, but is this like, two times bigger than your biggest

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month? Three times bigger than your biggest month, and it was

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almost three times more than she had ever made in one month in

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her business, and now I'm seeing her all over social media, with

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all the great things that she's doing, and oh yeah, the pictures

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of her kids and oh yeah, the picture of her and her husband

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taking vacations together. Like she still has her family. She

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still supports her family, physically, emotionally,

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spiritually,

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and she can have a successful business, because once you clear

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what's holding you back, you can start moving forward. You can

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start moving forward in doing what you want to do. For me, I I

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still do and I love doing leadership development type

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training. I love helping people develop those skills and see how

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they can show up better and differently for their team and

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and then I started learning some of these more touchy feely,

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spiritual type modalities and ways of being and moving in the

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world, and I literally was too scared to share them.

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I wasn't going to tell anybody, because I thought my friends and

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family would think I was a little cuckoo. Could you? And I

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fell off the train, and I woke up one morning, and I just had

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this deep seated knowing that I was going to do it, no matter

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what I was going to do it, even if I was scared I was going to

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do it, even if I had very dear friends who were like that is

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against Everything that we've ever been brought up to believe

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like I was going to do it anyway. And once I decided I was

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going to do it anyway, I started sharing one on one with people

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what I did. And it started with Akashic records. Then it moved

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into holy fire, Reiki, and then Body Code, Emotion Code and

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belief code, and it's changed my life, and it's changed the lives

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of many of my clients. And here's what I want you to

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remember, confidence isn't waiting. It's not something

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you're waiting to feel after you succeed. It's something you

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activate by releasing what's holding you back. I get pushback

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all the time from people who don't really believe in the

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healing energy that I do, and they'll start questioning me.

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Oh, that pendulum, you're moving you're moving it. Your arm is

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moving it. No, it's not. You're seeing what you want to see.

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Yes, as it starts changing direction, it kind of moves my

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hand with it, not the other way around. Oh, I felt nothing.

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That's true. You may not have felt anything today, but in a

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few days, you're going to feel something. One of my clients

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said, Oh, by the way, as we're wrapping up, I stepped off a

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curb and height, twisted my ankle, and it really hurts. Can

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you help me? And I was like, yes, yes, I can. So we created.

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She set her intention as long as I, as along with me, as I set my

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intention to balance the imbalances around her ankle

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healing quickly and easily, and that was like on a Sunday

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evening. No, I don't typically work Sundays, but you know,

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special occasions. On occasion I will, and I saw her the next

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Friday, and she said, Oh my gosh, I woke up Monday morning

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and I stepped out of bed and my ankle still hurt. And I thought

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that did not work, that did not fix my ankle,

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and she said, and then it's now Friday, and I've never thought

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about my ankle again, and it's fine. It's healed. So not only

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did she not notice it instantly, like the next morning, but then

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when it quit being a problem, she didn't even notice that it

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wasn't a problem anymore, like it was so gone. She didn't even

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notice I had one client that had cat allergies. I know it's a

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crazy thing. Somebody goes, Jennifer, do you want to be

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known as the crazy cat lady? Well, I do have cats. I'm a

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crazy cat lady. And I said, Do you. Me to help you with those

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cat allergies. And it was like, all right. And lo and behold,

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30 minutes later, all of his allergy symptoms were gone. And

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about six weeks later, I got a message from him that said, Oh,

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by the way, I've been to my friend's house three different

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times, and I haven't reacted to that cat at all. And I was like,

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Cool. I see him in person. Eight or nine months later, he says, I

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said, Hey, Aaron, those cat allergies. And he goes, I don't

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know. I haven't been around a cat.

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His cat allergies were so gone that he didn't even recognize

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when he was around a cat to remember that he was no longer

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allergic. That kind of cracked me up. But as I get these

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testimonials, as I get these text messages, I worked with a

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client today and I got a text message, nothing externally has

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changed, but inside, I feel differently. Yes, yes, you do.

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That's how this works.

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That confidence comes from doing that. Confidence comes from

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working with the people you were intended to work with, the

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people you were intended to help. So if you've been hiding

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your brilliance or doubting your worth, this is your reminder.

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The world doesn't just need your message, it needs your presence.

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Take a few moments today and ask yourself, Where am I still

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dimming my light? Where am I still playing small? Then take a

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breath. Take one small, brave step towards being seen, because

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your confidence is already within you, and it's time to let

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it shine. I'm Jennifer Takagi with destin for success. And if

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you'd like to have a conversation with me about your

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next best steps and what's holding you back, book a call.

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Your success call.com and I really look forward to talking

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to you soon.