Candy Motzek Shares how to align with who you are | DFS 313

Jennifer Takagi: 00:00:02

Welcome to Destin for success. I'm your

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host, Jennifer Takagi, and today I have my friend candy mozock

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with me, and candy and I met in a mastermind group, and then we

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played together in Mexico with the same masterminding group of

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people. And yeah, we just stick together, candy, thanks for

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being on the show

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today, for having me. It's been so great. You were

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on my show a while ago, and I'm so great to just happy to do the

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swap and happy to be talking to your listeners. Ah,

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thanks. So we like to talk about success on

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this podcast, and sometimes stories are like, what didn't

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feel so successful steps taken to be more successful. So you

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know, what does success mean or look like to you at this point

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in your life?

Candy Motzek: 00:00:54

Yeah, great question. Ah, and now I have to

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think about it too. So for me, success is alignment. It is this

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thing about being totally aligned with who you are and

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that place where you you know as you mature, I'm getting on there

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you get closer and closer to allowing yourself to be your

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true your true self, that is success. And I think that when

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you get there, everything else works, and you get the money,

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then you have the abundance, and you have the great

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relationships, because you're really allowing yourself to be

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true to who you are.

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And it's so exhausting trying to be somebody

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else or stand out differently. Going to class reunions, I kind

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of quit going, but I went to my tenure, and that was fun. I went

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to my 15 year and that was very bizarre. And by the time we hit

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the 20 year reunion, it was like people were now 38 years old, 39

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years old, and they actually had, like, come into their own,

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what they wanted to do, who they wanted to be, whereas there was

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an aspect prior to that of Keeping Up with the Joneses and

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trying to show up in a certain way, and sometimes that

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continues long after. But I found, like overall, we kind of

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settled in. Did you ever have a a time where you thought, Okay,

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I've kind of made it. I'm kind of, I'm kind of happy with where

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I am right now.

Candy Motzek: 00:02:43

I have that time off and on, and I've probably

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had it for about the last 10 years. It it's sort of funny,

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because it ties in with my morning routine. Every morning I

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get up, I pour myself a cup of coffee, I walk out the back

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door. If it's decent weather, I like to walk barefoot across the

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grass to my she shed and then I have my morning meditation and

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journaling and tapping and stuff that I do. And it's in that

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moment that I really feel like totally aligned. And I think

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it's really interesting what you're saying about the high

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school reunion thing, and my experience of that is totally

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different. I found that I think, after I went to my 15 year, 20

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year, I just didn't want to go anymore. I just, it's just not

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me, because those people, they may be closer to who they are,

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truthfully, but I found they weren't my people. And I was

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like, That's No, I just don't want to spend a lot of time with

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you. You're not the kind of person I want to hang out with,

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because if I did, I wouldn't need to see you at a graduation,

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reunion. I would see you all the time, right? So I had the

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same thing, and I missed multiple reunions

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because I was like, Yeah, I don't need to. The last one I

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went to a friend came in from out of town and said, I'm

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coming. I'm going to the reunion. You're going with me.

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And I was like, I'll go to hang out with you. Literally, there

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were hundreds of people there. I'm fairly social and outgoing,

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as you know, I bet I didn't talk to 10 people the whole time I

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was there, but there were 10 people I really wanted to talk

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to,

Candy Motzek: 00:04:30

yeah, and I'm the same way. There's a couple of

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people that it's like, oh yeah, people who live away

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internationally. But as it goes, the people that live close to

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where I grew up. They're just, you know, they're just different

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people. They're not my people, you know, not bad people, just

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not my people. So that's okay. Well,

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let's talk about your morning routine just

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a little bit. When I worked for corporate or federal government,

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my routine was they. Went off, I hit snooze a few times, just

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because I enjoy those few minutes of just I have a few

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more minutes. And then I would help out of bed and hit the

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ground running. I was in the shower, I was dressed, I was

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getting my breakfast together, my lunch together. I was in the

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car, I was out the door, and I was super awesome about that.

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And I would hear about people taking an hour, hour and a half

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to get ready to go to work. And I'm like, I get up at 10 till

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seven, and I'm usually out of the door at 737, 40 at the

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latest, like, if I had to make a sandwich or something. And I was

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like, I was up and out, and I was good with that. And now at

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this point in my life, and interacting with a whole lot of

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people who are much more I'm going to use the term mindful

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and possibly spiritual, they have morning routines, and it's

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a deal. Tell me a little bit more. I mean, I love your

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morning routine, but how has that made a huge difference in

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your life? And have you done it like always.

Candy Motzek: 00:06:03

So I've done it for what feels like 100 years,

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but it hasn't been for always. So as you were describing your

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corporate morning routine, mine was very similar, except the

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difference was that we were on call, 24/7, 365, and so I always

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slept with the phone. It was a Blackberry in those days. God,

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it was a Blackberry, and I always slept with the phone in

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my bedroom, not on my nightstand, but on the dresser

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just across the way. So the first thing that I would always

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do is just check my phone, because sure shooting somebody

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would have decided that we needed to have an urgent team

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meeting about this new initiative or some emergency,

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but we needed to have that meeting at 7am my time. I live

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on the West Coast. Most everybody else that was

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important lived on the east coast. So their idea of 7am was

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like, well, it's 10am What's your problem? And so that used

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to be my morning routine. And lots of things happened. You

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know, there's mixed race woman in corporate America, in a

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highly male dominated field at a senior level. And so I

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experienced it all, racism, sexism, all the isms. And it was

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it became intolerable. And so my morning routine, I created that

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when I was on leave from burnout. And so that morning

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routine saved my life, and that is the that's the reason that I

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do it. And now it's like this great. It's one of my favorite

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times of the day. I wake up pretty darn early because I love

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especially this time of the year, in the spring, we've got,

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you know, the sun is up at about 4am and the birds are singing,

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and there is nothing like walking out your back door and

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seeing the baby ducklings and the different little creatures

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and stuff. It's the best thing ever. But my morning routine was

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started because I needed it, because I was dying and and it

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saved my life and saved my mental life. So it always starts

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with a meditation. Doesn't have to be a long meditation, but

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always with meditation. And even now, if I miss a day, my husband

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will look at me and said, Did you meditate today? Candy?

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Because you should.

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He does not, right. He does

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not meditate at all, which is so funny,

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you need to

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exactly and then journaling, because while

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journaling, you get all those thoughts and emotions that are

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in your head out onto a paper. And it's kind of like I always

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start my journaling the way I describe it. It's like cleaning

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out the junk drawer in your kitchen. Just get all that crap

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out of the junk drawer of your head, and then I can decide how

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I want to think about things. I look at what my goals are, what

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my dreams are, what I'm thankful for. And so the journaling is

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just an integral thing. And I know that we're audio, but if

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somebody was seeing video, you would see a small stack of

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journals behind me here, and that's, yeah, that's about a

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year's worth, so there's a lot of them. And then EFT tapping,

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because it's just a great way of calming your nervous system. And

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as soon as your nervous system is calm and you can have better

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thoughts. You can plan how you want your day to be, and you can

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feel more like yourself. You know, there's that full circle,

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right? Come back to being yourself. So, yeah, that's the

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that's the morning routine. Sometimes I do slightly

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different things, like, currently, I love Marianne

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Williamson, and so I'm one of her substack. Um. Um

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subscribers, and I listened to her little two minute morning

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meditation. It's always very interesting, based on a course

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in miracles. And then I always read a comment on her sub stack,

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because I think if I can think of something good to say, maybe

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it helps somebody else's day get better too.

Jennifer Takagi: 00:10:19

So much in all of that. So I want to go back

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just a tiny bit to your BlackBerry story. There could be

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listeners who don't know what a Blackberry was. Oh, my God, it's

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before smartphones, but it was like the smartest thing out

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there. Oh yeah, and go ahead.

Candy Motzek: 00:10:37

No, I'm good. I was just gonna say the thing is

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that it was the smartest thing out there. And I know that the

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new trend is there's a lot of people who have gotten rid of

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their smartphones and have gone back to the old analog flip

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phone because they don't want all that connectivity. It's

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pretty cool.

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Well, I have a girlfriend. She's like, I have

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no social media on my phone. And I was like, okay, but on that

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BlackBerry note, a hard lesson for me to learn, just as a

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person, not even as an executive or upcoming career, just in

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general, was that change is inevitable, and the older we

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get. I'm seeing how less pliable, malleable and flexible

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people get with age at change, like I want the good old days.

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Was it really that good? No, it really wasn't like, let's be

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here, but the BlackBerry was the greatest thing going and

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everybody thought BlackBerry was going to be here forever, like

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they it. That was the thing. That was the technology. It was

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amazing. They refused, I can't even talk today. We've had this

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problem earlier. They refused to change and modernize, exactly.

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And now we have an entire generation or two, maybe three

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now that have never heard of a Blackberry other than maybe, you

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know the TV show or somebody mentioning it. So if we don't

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grow and evolve, we're going to become extinct before our time.

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And this whole mindfulness and meditation and journaling that's

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just a way to keep us evolving and on our toes. And I know one

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time you had a Monday morning session, for lack of a better

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word, and I joined it, and you were like, Okay, I want you to

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meditate. What would your day look like if you had, for

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instance, 10 clients. And I started journaling about it. I'm

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sure you remember this, and you're like, oh, so everybody,

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you know what came up for you? And I was like, I don't want 10

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clients. If they each wanted three sessions a week. Like,

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that's 30 hours a week. I have other things, like, I can't cope

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with 30 with 10 clients in 30 hours a week. And I just really,

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like, I drew a hard line in the sand, like, I don't want that. I

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don't want 10 clients. That's too many. And I was talking to a

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business coach, and they said, Oh, Jennifer, you don't have to

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book them three times a week. They get on your calendar when

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you have availability. And I was like, wait what? You didn't get

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on like you, I haven't talked to you in two weeks because you

Jennifer Takagi: 00:13:33

couldn't get on my calendar. Our calendars didn't align. It

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wasn't that they had no availability. It was like my

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availability, their availability, but that was,

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like, a huge mindset shift for me. And I was like, of course, I

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can handle at least 10 clients, because it doesn't have to be

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that way. So it's being open and flexible to another way to do

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it. I'm fair to partly rigid. I'm trying to be more, you know,

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open and fluid. But that journaling, you get it out on

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paper, then you can share it with somebody else, and like me,

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you can have the win of somebody going that doesn't have to be

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that way.

Candy Motzek: 00:14:12

Open Access to you. They get open access within

Candy Motzek: 00:14:16

the time that you say they can have access. But you got to take

Candy Motzek: 00:14:20

care of yourself and have a life too, right?

Jennifer Takagi: 00:14:23

Hey, that's the other piece. Yes, you have to

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take care of yourself. I love so I love flying, like, just get me

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where I want to go so I can enjoy the experience once I'm

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there. But Southwest Airlines, their flight attendants have

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more fun with their pre flight announcements, and it's, you

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know, put on the put on your face Max first before you help

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the man next to you, because he's going to need it, or the

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children. But if you don't put yours on first, and it's so

Jennifer Takagi: 00:14:53

true, and we hear mainly women talking all the time about all

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their responsibilities, all the people they have to take. Care

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of in their lives, and they don't have time to get a

Jennifer Takagi: 00:15:01

manicure pedicure. Okay? That's not just having good looking

Jennifer Takagi: 00:15:05

toes and and fingers. That's like downtime. That's like self

Jennifer Takagi: 00:15:12

care. Not everybody gets that. I totally get that. Manicures, not

Jennifer Takagi: 00:15:16

so much. Pedicures, absolutely and it's it, it's all the little

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things that can help so your morning routine, and I'm just,

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I'm hammering this home because I I wish people would like

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embrace a morning routine. What's your average time slot

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that you make for your morning routine to have coffee,

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meditate, journal, EFT, tapping. And I

Candy Motzek: 00:15:39

love that hour talk, an hour talk. Tops, I use

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the setting on my iPhone that says I cannot look at social

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media or my emails or anything on the web before 7am so my

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morning routine could easily span a long time, if then I'm

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like, oh, so and so's doing on Instagram. Oh, that's cool. I

Candy Motzek: 00:16:06

like that. And before I know it, the whole thing is sucked away.

Candy Motzek: 00:16:09

So it's, it's this place of focus, right? It's like, you

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decide to do it, but you're doing it only that, not that,

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and eating breakfast that, and checking Instagram that, and

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responding to an email, just stay pure to that morning

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routine. And I bet you, if you had 20 minutes and you did it

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consciously, you can do 10 minutes of meditation, five

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minutes of journaling, five minutes of tapping, 20 minutes

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all in it's going to change your day.

Jennifer Takagi: 00:16:44

10 minutes of meditation, five minutes of

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journaling, five of tapping,

Candy Motzek: 00:16:51

and you all have changed your day.

Jennifer Takagi: 00:16:57

So I'm a Christian, but I also believe

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that we get lots of messages from lots of different things,

Jennifer Takagi: 00:17:04

and for me, it all was created by God, so it's good. Other

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people believe in universe and spirit or higher self. I'm good

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with any of it. Everybody's belief systems are great with

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me. I don't really care. But you get messages however they come,

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whatever label you put on him. But the one thing I have learned

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that I know that I know that I know the messages come quicker

Jennifer Takagi: 00:17:30

and more easily when you're quiet and still

Candy Motzek: 00:17:34

exactly and so for people who are Christians, it's

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this prayer is where we talk to God, and meditating is where we

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listen to God, right? The place that I hear most of my messages

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is I get them at 4am I kind of semi sort of kind of wake up.

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It's sort of like a half awake, and then they'll get something,

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and then I get to go back to sleep for another hour. It's

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great.

Jennifer Takagi: 00:18:03

And that's when you have that idea that you have

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to sleep with a pad and pen next year bed. So when those

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brilliant moments come,

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gotta write it. Yeah,

Jennifer Takagi: 00:18:13

I had a spiritual coach one time say

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when I go to bed, I set the intention that my guides will

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remind me of the brilliance that I had during my sleep. Because

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if something really big comes up and you wake up and you're like,

Jennifer Takagi: 00:18:28

Ah, I think I had that solution.

Candy Motzek: 00:18:32

Yeah. What was that thing? But I love that I

Candy Motzek: 00:18:34

hadn't thought about that. I'm going to use that too, yeah,

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remind my guides to remind me so I don't forget.

Jennifer Takagi: 00:18:42

So math was always hard for me, and there

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are probably a bazillion reasons why I'm smart enough. I could

Jennifer Takagi: 00:18:48

have learned it, I just didn't like it. But what I found as I

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got higher up in in math, in algebra two and trig, Algebra

Jennifer Takagi: 00:18:57

three, while I was in high school, was I would finally get

Jennifer Takagi: 00:19:03

it the morning of the test, like, finally it would all come

Jennifer Takagi: 00:19:07

together. I would sit down, I would take the test, and I

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always gotta be like, I could never get an A, and it was

Jennifer Takagi: 00:19:13

because I didn't have enough time between understanding and

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having to be tested on it. But I think a lot of that came from

Jennifer Takagi: 00:19:20

that night before the test, like, I had studied, I had

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prepped, I had done all the things that my subconscious is

Jennifer Takagi: 00:19:24

like, All right, we'll let you get through it.

Candy Motzek: 00:19:29

Yeah. And also maybe it was the processing,

Candy Motzek: 00:19:31

like, I'm just kind of thinking about that, like allowing your

Candy Motzek: 00:19:34

subconscious to process it and put it in the way that actually

Candy Motzek: 00:19:37

made sense to you. Like, you know, studying it is one thing,

Candy Motzek: 00:19:40

but then it needs to make sense to you to be able to do the test

Candy Motzek: 00:19:43

too.

Jennifer Takagi: 00:19:44

Yeah, I always thought, Man, I woke up today if

Jennifer Takagi: 00:19:47

that test could only be tomorrow. Like I just know,

Jennifer Takagi: 00:19:50

because, you know, today, as soon as we take the test, we

Jennifer Takagi: 00:19:52

move on to something new, right? So for sure, you have to be

Jennifer Takagi: 00:19:56

quiet and still candy. This has been awesome. I i. Love that you

Jennifer Takagi: 00:20:01

went from sleeping with the BlackBerry in your bedroom, that

Jennifer Takagi: 00:20:04

you had to like react to instantaneously when you got up

Jennifer Takagi: 00:20:07

to no social, no email, no nothing before 7am so that you

Jennifer Takagi: 00:20:13

can have time for your morning rituals. This has been great,

Jennifer Takagi: 00:20:17

awesome conversation. So any last words for the audience and

Jennifer Takagi: 00:20:24

how they can get hold of you? Ah,

Candy Motzek: 00:20:27

last words. So I think that the last word is that

Candy Motzek: 00:20:31

you get to do a morning routine the way you want to when you

Candy Motzek: 00:20:37

make it so that it doesn't feel like another thing on your to do

Candy Motzek: 00:20:41

list that's that you have to do, but something that you look

Candy Motzek: 00:20:45

forward to. It's everything. So if you love the idea of a

Candy Motzek: 00:20:50

morning routine and you drink coffee, get it in your favorite

Candy Motzek: 00:20:54

mug, sit in a nice comfy chair with a nice fluffy blanket and

Candy Motzek: 00:21:00

really savor it and make it something that you enjoy. The

Candy Motzek: 00:21:04

more you enjoy it, the more you're going to feel like you

Candy Motzek: 00:21:06

need to do it. So that would be my thoughts. And then how they

Candy Motzek: 00:21:10

can get a hold of me. You can get a hold of me at my website.

Candy Motzek: 00:21:13

It is candymote.com not going to spell it all out for you. It'll

Candy Motzek: 00:21:18

be in the Episode Notes, but it's just my name

Candy Motzek: 00:21:20

candymoatsec.com you can see all different kinds of people that I

Candy Motzek: 00:21:24

talk to, and ways that you can find out more about working with

Candy Motzek: 00:21:28

me. Thank you for having me.

Jennifer Takagi: 00:21:31

I love it, candy. Thank you so much for

Jennifer Takagi: 00:21:34

your time. I'm Jennifer Takagi with destin for success, and I

Jennifer Takagi: 00:21:39

look forward to connecting with you soon. You.